When a relationship breaks down, and the parties have separated or are considering separation, things can become challenging, especially when you are trying to make decisions about dividing up property and caring for your children. This is where mediation can help during your family law proceedings.
Mediation is becoming more common as a greater number of people seek to avoid the Court process. The Courts have also made mediation mandatory in most cases, meaning a party cannot file a Court case unless they have first attempted dispute resolution.
In basic terms, mediation is simply a conversation supported by a mediator. The aim of mediation is to help people come to an agreement without going to Court.
A mediator is an independent person that helps people talk through their issues and reach an agreement. The mediator’s role is to guide the negotiations and help facilitate positive communications.
The mediator will assist you and your former partner to find arrangements that work best for the children and the family and/or to reach a property settlement agreement.
Mediators cannot give legal advice, decide who is right or wrong, or force people to reach an agreement.
In a family law context, mediation can be a powerful tool to help separated couples reach an agreement and keep their matter out of the Courts.
There are generally two types of mediation:
This is where parties attend a mediation with their lawyers and a qualified mediator. The lawyers will generally lead the discussions and conduct negotiations on behalf of their clients. This process if best suited to parties who want to reach an agreement out of Court but don’t feel comfortable of confident enough to do it alone.
Often where parties are on good terms and don’t have complex legal affairs, they may prefer to engage in mediation without lawyers. This option is available via private mediation services (many of which are offered by lawyers) and through government organisations such as Relationships Australia.
During mediation the mediator will work through a process that aims to:
During the conversation, the mediator may also:
You can request to bring a support person with you. It is best to discuss your wishes with your mediator or with your lawyer if you’re having a lawyer-assisted mediation.
This is a common question, and there is no single answer. Each dispute is different, and some are more complex or more contentious than others. For example, a short mediation can take a few hours, whereas a longer mediation can require a whole day or even multiple meetings.
Mediation is generally a better way to resolve disagreements compared to going to Court.
Here are just some of the benefits of mediation:
Successful mediation occurs when everyone is prepared to listen and share perspectives. As part of your preparation, it can help to write down responses to these questions:
It is important to meet with your lawyer before your mediation to make sure you understand the process and that both parties are ready to attend a mediation. For example, if there is no agreement regarding the value of an asset (such as the family home), then it may be too early to attend the mediation, and a valuation may be required.
You can read more details about preparing for mediation in our earlier blog, “How do I prepare for a successful family law mediation?”
Yes! Mediation is a great way to reach settlement and stay out of Court. If everyone is properly prepared and willing to make some compromises, then there is no reason why an agreement can’t be reached.
A professional mediator is trained to use a range of tools and techniques to help guide your disagreement to a resolution in the best interests of the family.
It is important to understand, though, that mediation works best when both parties come prepared to listen to each other and genuinely seek to progress to a workable solution.
The family law system encourages separated families to come to their own arrangements in caring for their children or finalising their property settlement without going to Court.
However, if your dispute cannot be resolved through mediation, you may be required to go to Court. Going to Court can be a long, stressful and expensive process but is sometimes necessary to progress a matter.
The aim of mediation is to avoid the situation reaching Court. However, if you need to go to Court, there will still be opportunities to settle your matter along the way, and most cases won’t make it all the way to a final hearing or trial.
Not all situations are suited to mediation. Before a mediation will occur, your mediator will assess if mediation is a suitable option.
The mediator will assess suitability, considering whether there is any family violence, the safety of the parties, the emotional, psychological and physical health of the parties and any children. Safety will and should always be the number one priority.
If you feel this applies to your situation, we have a team of family law experts here to discuss your options and the next steps involved.
It is not a requirement to have your family lawyer present at your mediation however, many people feel more comfortable having someone to provide expert legal advice through this process and conduct the negotiations on their behalf.
Emera Family Law are experts in negotiating out-of-court settlements. Contact our team to ensure you have the best advice moving forward.
Family law mediation is an excellent option for parties to negotiate issues in dispute and find a suitable resolution with less stress and less costs than taking your matter through the Court system. If you want legal advice or support during mediation, feel free to give us a call. We offer a free first consultation.
This article is of a general nature and should not be relied upon as legal advice. If you require further information, advice or assistance for your specific circumstances, please contact Emera Family Law.